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Child Abuse

Child abuse is more common than people think. There are many different kinds of abuse. People often believe that if a child does not have physical injuries, he has not been abused.

Child abuse means the physical, emotional, sexual, or neglectful maltreatment of a child. Witnessing violence is considered a form of child abuse.

It is commonly believed that children are most often abused by strangers. This is why education about abuse has focused on stranger danger. Children can be harmed by strangers; however, it is more likely that a child will be abused by the people that he knows. This can include family, family friends, and other trusted adults in the child’s life.

Types of Child Abuse

Physical: Physical abuse means using physical violence against a child. Some examples of physical abuse include slapping, biting, burning, punching, pushing, throwing, grabbing, and hurting the head, brain and neck (Abusive Head Trauma). Physical abuse can cause injuries, like bruising or broken bones.

Emotional: Emotional abuse refers to using words, attitudes, or behaviours to humiliate, embarrass, or hurt a child. Some examples of emotional abuse include making fun of, mocking, or calling a child names.

Types of Child Abuse

Sexual: Sexual abuse is any kind of sexual activity involving a child. Sexual activity does not have to include penetration (putting the penis into the vagina or anus [bum]) to be abusive. Some examples of sexual abuse include sexual touching and kissing, forced sexual acts, forcing a child to watch sex between adults (in person or through pornography), making child pornography, and sex trafficking.

Neglect: Neglect refers to not meeting a child’s needs. This can include:

  • Emotional neglect: not providing love and care
  • Physical neglect: not providing physical supplies like clothes, toothbrush, and soap
  • Educational neglect: not allowing the child to attend school
  • Medical neglect: not providing a child with needed medical care

Witnessing Domestic Violence or Marital Discord: Witnessing domestic violence and marital discord refers to a child seeing, hearing, or dealing with the effects of domestic violence. The child may not be physically harmed by this abuse. She can be indirectly harmed, for example, by being made to lie about the reason for a parent’s injuries.

Witnessing abuse is considered a form of child abuse in Canada.

Signs of Abuse

Signs of Child Abuse

Sometimes it is easy to notice the signs of abuse.

However, it can also sometimes be difficult to notice signs of abuse. Sometimes signs of abuse and normal development can be confused.

Below are some signs of abuse:

  • Not interested in activities the child used to like
  • Changes in behaviour, e.g., more aggressive or hyperactive
  • Going backwards in development, e.g., not being able to use the potty when they have already been potty trained
  • Developing new and unusual fears
  • Lack of parent supervision
  • Lack of parent attention
  • Unexplained injuries, such as bruises, fractures, or burns; young babies are not able to injure themselves until they begin to move
  • Injuries that don’t match the explanation given by parent or child
  • Untreated medical or dental problems
  • Sexual behaviour or knowledge that is inappropriate for the child’s age
  • Trouble walking or sitting, or pain in the groin area
  • Child acts out abuse he has experienced and may abuse other children
  • Frequent headaches or stomach aches
  • Seeking stranger’s affection
  • Poor growth or weight gain
  • Poor hygiene
  • Lack of clothing or supplies

Impacts of Child Abuse

There are many impacts of child abuse. Some of these you can see right away, like bruises or aggressive behaviour.

Some of the impacts occur over time. Ongoing abuse causes a constant activation of the child’s stress response system. This constant activation results in physical, emotional, and behavioural problems in childhood and adulthood.

Abuse can also harm the child’s attachment relationships and may make home an unsafe place to be.

Reporting Child Abuse in Saskatchewan

The Saskatchewan Child Abuse Protocol states that it is everyone’s responsibility to report child abuse to social services or the police (local or RCMP). If you make a report, it is not up to you to prove the abuse is happening. Child protective services, the police, and other specialists will start to investigate and make that decision.

It is important not to assume that someone else has already reported the situation. If you suspect abuse, you should report. This ensures that reports are made and can add information to a child’s file.

Maltreatment

Maltreatment means treating a child roughly, cruelly, or violently.

Witnessing violence

Witnessing violence means seeing or hearing violence occur in your home or community. Witnessing violence can also mean feeling the effects of violence even if you didn’t see or hear it. For example, seeing your mother cry the morning after your father hurt her. Click here for more information.

Abusive Head Trauma

Sometimes parents shake their child out of frustration. Usually this happens when the child is crying and cannot be soothed. Shaking a baby can cause injuries to the brain and neck. It can also cause the baby to die. For more information, please click here.

Pornography

Pornography is media that provides descriptions or images of sexual body parts (like the penis or vagina) or sexual acts. Pornography can be in printed, audio, or video form. Showing pornography to children or using children in the making of pornography is abusive.

Sex Trafficking

Sex trafficking refers to selling sex for money or some other reward. With children, this can include the making of pornography and using children sexually to make money.

Stress Response System

The stress response system is instinctual; not under your control. It exists to keep us safe. This system starts when we come in contact with something that is new, threatening, uncontrollable, or unpredictable. For more information about children’s reactions to stress, please click here.

Attachment

Attachment is the bond that your child will develop with you. Children of all ages can develop attachments to their caregivers.

Your child will form a secure attachment to you when you provide him with safe, loving, and consistent care.

For more information about attachment, click here.


Prevention of Child Abuse

Teach

  • Introduce your child to the Kids Help Phone, 1-800-668-6868.
  • Teach your child his rights.
  • Teach your child to use the proper names of his body parts.
  • Talk about child abuse and domestic violence openly in your community and at home.
  • Teach your child the difference between appropriate and inappropriate touch.
  • Supervise and set boundaries around your child’s use of the Internet.
  • Create a safety plan with your child so that she knows who to go to if he is feeling unsafe. Help your child to understand that if he does not get the help he needs from the first person he tells, to keep telling until he gets the help he needs.

Report

  • If you suspect child abuse, report it to social services, police, or RCMP. Understand your duty to report. You do not have to have proof of the abuse.
  • Positive discipline skills helps you to find long-term solutions that develop children’s own self-discipline and their lifelong skills.

Support for Parents

Check

  • Before enrolling your child in a program or daycare, check that adult leaders/coaches have had a criminal records check.
  • Coaches in Saskatchewan are encouraged to take a training called Respect in Sport. The purpose is to help decrease bullying and abuse in sports.

Appropriate and Inappropriate Touch

Use the bathing suit rule to teach children what appropriate and inappropriate touch is. Teach your child that no one should touch the parts of his body that his bathing suit covers unless it is a doctor or his parents helping him bathe. Inappropriate touch is any touch that makes your child feel uncomfortable.

Appropriate and Inappropriate Touch

Safety Plan

Your child needs to know who is safe in his community. Safe people are people who you feel will not hurt your child. Talk to him about safe people. These are people he can go to if bad or uncomfortable things are happening to him. These should include people who are part of your family and people who aren’t.

Safety Planning

Positive Discipline

Positive discipline skills helps you to find long-term solutions that develop children’s own self-discipline and their lifelong skills. Positive discipline is not about punishment. It is about teaching non-violence, empathy, self-respect, human rights, and respect for others. For more information, click here.

Criminal Records Check

A criminal records check is conducted by a local police section or RCMP office. When completed, a criminal records check will provide a list of past charges that a person has been found guilty of.

Individuals working with children should also be asked to complete a Vulnerable Sector Check. This check searches for sexual offences. These remain on a person’s record even if they have received a pardon.

Prevention of Domestic Violence

Quiz

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