Youth dating violence includes a range of abuse behaviours experienced by youth in romantic or dating relationships. These behaviours include physical violence, sexual violence, and emotional and psychological abuse. Youth dating violence can be experienced in person or online. Youth dating violence is a risk factor for experiencing future partner violence in adulthood.
Early signs of youth dating violence are often subtle forms of psychological/emotional abuse including verbal criticism, personal and public degradation (e.g., shaming), jealous and possessive behaviours, and threats of aggression. These subtle behaviours are often overlooked. Other signs of youth dating violence include changes in physical appearance, changes in behaviours with peers or in the classroom, and a relationship that appears to lack balance. More specific signs of youth dating violence are outlined below.
Changes in Physical Appearance
Stops wearing makeup, or wears a lot more
Starts wearing baggier clothes
Frequent bruising
Self-harm behaviours
Changes in Behaviour with Peers or in the Classroom
Loss of friendships and isolation
Late or absent from school and activities
Unable to concentrate and reduced academic performance
Passive, compliant, withdrawn
Bullying and acting out
Anxious that partner will show up or know where they are
Relationship Lacks Balance
Constantly checking in with texts, phone calls
Sending photos to prove location
Making excuses for partner’s behaviour
Verbal criticisms
Extreme jealousy and possessive behaviours
Belittling and name calling
Risk Factors for Victimization and Perpetration
Research has identified a number of factors that are associated with a higher likelihood of experiencing and/or perpetrating youth dating violence. These include individual, relationship, community, and societal factors. Explanations for the increased risk include the following:
Lack of communication and other healthy relationship skills
Less exposure to healthy relationship models
Pressure to conform to traditional gender and dating norms
Lack of access to education and support services
Exposure to high rates of community violence
Stigma, prejudice, and discrimination experienced by particular groups
Colonialism and systemic racism
The following are factors related to an increased risk of experiencing youth dating violence:
There are several negative consequences associated with youth dating violence. It is linked to mental health difficulties such as depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-harm behaviours, disordered eating, and problematic substance use. Engagement in risky sexual behaviours is also associated with youth dating violence, leading to an increased likelihood of sexually transmitted infections and unintended pregnancy. In addition, physical injury, poor academic performance, and decreased social networks are outcomes of youth dating violence.
Youth dating violence is a risk factor for experiencing future partner violence and unhealthy relationships into adulthood.
Prevention And Intervention Strategies
Targeted prevention and intervention efforts are crucial to help prevent youth dating violence from happening in the first place, and to reduce the long-term impacts of youth dating violence when it does occur.
Before they begin dating, educate children about healthy relationships and dating, consent, conflict management, and online safety.
Teach youth to recognize the signs of unhealthy relationships and youth dating violence and discuss the importance of reporting abuse.
Model healthy relationships skills for children and youth in daily interactions.
Ensure people who support youth understand the signs of youth dating violence and are educated to effectively respond to disclosures and provide support.
If you or someone you know is experiencing dating violence, please visit www.abuse.sk.211.ca to find resources in your community or connect with Kids Help phone by texting CONNECT to 686868, calling 1-800-668-6868, or visiting www.kidshelpphone.ca.
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